Tuesday, August 19, 2008

Secret Hiding Places

You know what every kid needs?? I mean besides the basics like clothes, water and Goldfish crackers (very important!) No.... not those things. What every kid needs and will try to find throughout their childhood is a secret hiding place, a cubbyhole, a hut, a fort... whatever you may call it.


I can remember a few. My friend Kristin and I used to spend every spare minute crouched down into the top of the playset in her backyard. It was shaped kind of like a little house and it made a great secret hiding place. We liked to get two copies of the same book (usually Sweet Valley Twins) and read together, turning the pages at the same time. That way we would always be able to know where the other person was and we could talk about what we read. Sometimes we came across confusing words and needed to figure out definitions together. For example the word "pelvis" which we both thought was a naughty word until we got up the nerve to go ask Kristin's Mom.


Another favoritie hiding place was what we kids liked to call "the blanket closet". I know creative name. We used this closet to tell ghost stories, play hide and seek and I personally used it several times when I was crying and didn't want anyone to know. Since we've been staying here.... I decided to introduce this wonderful place to my kids. They didn't use it the same way I did. Instead... they hauled all of the blankets out of the closet and hid under them. They even take books and flashlights and burrow under the blankets in their own little holes. They don't like to go into the actual blanket closet because it's too scary. I liked our method better as their method seems a little .... suffocating.... but whatever. At least it's still a secret hiding place.Since it's quite a bit of work to haul out all of those blankets... we never put them away again without a good jumping contest.
It took me a long time to get a picture of Molly in mid-air since her jumps never got very high. They were more like face plants over and over into the blanket pile. But she loved it. Notice that she is missing one of her little shoes which may appear in a future picture.Lizzy catching some air. (Sorry about the underwear view.)

And last... Andrew and ........the missing pink shoe. (Do your little boys LOVE to try on other people's shoes?)

Monday, August 18, 2008

Guinea Pig

I'm really pretty into this Mom thing. It's important to me (priority numero uno). And I spend quite a lot of time doing it (like 24 hours a day 7 days a week). So I really really want to get it right but the problem is....

I never got any chance to practice.

And really is that fair?? Even in the Olympics they get a few times to warm-up and practice before their score really counts.

But I was just thrown right in and had to start from scratch and poor Lizzy has had to endure being my guinea pig.
She was with me while I figured out what in the world to do with a newborn.
And then together we stumbled through the toddler years.
But now we're at the stage called preschooler and I haven't a clue how to parent a preschooler.... especially such a stubborn, emotional, independent and fun-loving preschooler.

I found a talk recently written by Mollie Sorensen, a mother of eleven. Yes eleven. She writes about what she is doing differently in raising child number 11 than she did with number 1. I figured that I'd like to learn these lessons sooner than later and spare Lizzy as much of my learning process as possible.

It's called Love, Discipline and Tender Hearts. Reading it gave me hope and some great new perspectives on parenting. Amidst all of the psychology/parenting/behavior management books I've read .... the greatest truth was contained in this talk. Never Underestimate the Power of Love. Sometimes I forget that the greatest gift I can ever give to my kids is my Love. If I really really love them and everything I do is motivated by my love then it seems unlikely that they'll end up on Maury Povich talking about how their Mom ruined their lives.

But you never know....

Thursday, August 14, 2008

I Need Chocolate!!!




I am doing a program called 8-weeks to feeling great. It is a healthy lifestyles type of program where you get points added or subtracted for doing different things that add to a healthy lifestyle. It's really been good, but I'm not sure if I can make it 8 weeks. I need chocolate. Seriously. I don't function quite right without it. Could I be an addict?

Tuesday, August 12, 2008

Andrew Loves Animals and Lizzy Loves Ranch

I thought it'd be fun to record a few of the fun little things that these kids have been up to lately. Grandma has a big toybox mostly full of stuffed animals. Andrew has become somewhat obsessed with these animals. He likes to put them to bed, read to them, talk to them, line them up.... you get the idea.
This day it was a trip to the potty for the whole crew. If only Andrew was as excited to take his own little self to the potty. (Taking his animals to the bathroom is a good sign though..no?)

Anyone here like ranch dressing? I am a ranch fan - I think it makes almost everything better. But would you eat it by the spoonful? For Lizzy the answer is YES!! I gave her some carrots and ranch and a few goldfish crackers for a snack... then I left the room. When she heard me coming back she hurried and put her hands over her bowl. "What are you hiding." I asked.

"Oh nothing." she said. And then, "I needed a little more." I tried telling her that ranch is a dip... not a soup, but she kept eating.....

and eating...

and eating.... and even licked the bowl out. I'm sorry if this grossed you.... but it's the truth and it must be told.

Friday, August 8, 2008

Poll Results

Did you notice over there on that side bar on this blog that there is a poll asking how often people iron?? If you haven't looked yet... go look now. So here is the good news. Out of the 29 people who answered the poll....15 said that they rarely iron. And 3 more said that they never iron. So there you go.... my confidence is boosted. My failure in the ironing department is only normal. It's always nice to learn things like that. Believe it or not... I am now going to iron. ( Dress shirts that have been in a box for 2 months qualify as one of those "rarely" moments.)

Monday, August 4, 2008

10 years ago....

This Friday night I pretended that I was a senior in highschool. Our highschool reunion was so much fun and I laughed so hard that I cried. I can't remember the last time I did that. (Actually I can....but that's a story for another time). I really felt like I was in highschool again if just for one night. Infact it was kind of wierd how much it was the same:

10 YEARS AGO
I had to call my parents to let them know I'd be late.
I tried to call Aaron and get him to come hang out since I was crazy about him.
We went to Earl's house to hang out and his Mom made us cookies.
We were rowdy and obnoxious at the restaurant.
We went to Denny's where Evan ordered a meal and Tawni had a chocolate shake.
We talked about our crushes.
We talked about how great it'd be to get away to college.

LAST FRIDAY NIGHT
I had to call the babysitter (thanks Nancy) to tell her I'd be late getting the kids.
I tried to call Aaron all night since he was out of town and I missed him like crazy.
We went to Earl's house to hang out and his Mom made us cookies.
We were rowdy and obnoxious at the restaurant but at least we knew it and left a nice tip for our waiter.
We went to Denny's where Evan ordered a meal and Tawni had a chocolate shake.
We talked about our crushes back then and our kids today.
We talked about how much fun we had back in highschool.
Jake and Michelle who won a prize that night for having the newest baby. (3 weeks)
Kenny won an award for coming the furthest for the reunion (Virginia) and Evan won an award (from me) for saying the word "sex" more than anyone that night.
Alex and Jen who have the oldest kids of us all and who didn't remember anything that we did in highschool. Also Jen wins for being such a good sport with all of our "remember when" stories and for laughing instead of crying when Evan spilled a container of syrup down her hair/face/clothes.
Tawni who I can't say anything else about except that she was my bestest friend back then and is still my bestest friend. (Always and Forever Tawni or as some might say 637.)Earl and Rachel who put up with it every single time that we have to tell the "car accident" story again.
It really was a great night. I was missing Aaron, Rachel and Lindsay and wished you'd all made it. Thanks for being the greatest friends then... and now.

Friday, August 1, 2008

Summertime Is....

Popsicles....
Swimming....
Swimming some more...Even more SwimmingOkay.... lots and lots of ....Swimming.A little time with Mother Nature.....


A few family outings... (farm country)
(Treehouse museum)


Family BBQ's....
And finally.... a good game of Peek-A-Boo
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(I know it doesn't quite fit my summertime theme... but I thought they were great pictures.)Who could ask for more??